How tiny can such a gigantic creature be seen from a far? And how we can imagine touching it and turn it to be whatever that we wanted it to be, just because we have the privilege in controlling what we want to think about?
It’s the same with what people are saying about you. How you’re doing now after all the hardships that only you know you’ve been through, how you look so little compared to other people, how people just blurt out nonsense when they knew nothing about you...
You can change this. Whatever the hell people say about you, at the end of the day, only you know everything about you.
People say nasty things because they have no idea what’s going on in other people’s minds, and what they’ve been through. If you’re in the same place, doing the same thing, everyone will have the thought that you’re all the same.
It’s not actually a big deal, but when it kind of hurts your pride because all the things you’ve done to get to where you’re right now seem worthless, then something needs to be fixed.
We should learn on how to respect each other, speak without hurting each other, only then we can live in peace.
Yes people who have no idea how bad it is to be talk of other people and the feelings of thinking you’re somewhat a loser for not being able to become what you should have became in the first place after all that you’ve been going through, will definitely say “it’s not a big deal, cheer up”, or “don’t think about, they’re just saying things they didn’t know of” or something similar...because they’ve never been in other people’s bad shoes. They’re just walking and standing, wearing their new shoes day by day, without thinking about how exactly the ones who’re always have to wear the same old shoes all over again because they knew how hard it it to keep up with the mean world.
Turning bad things into positive thinking is not easy. But why do bad things happen in the first place?